Questionnaire To Be Filled Out

 

Please hand PRINT neatly or type it. Fill it out as much as possible. If you don’t know an answer, please leave it blank for now.

 

1.  Grooms Full Name:_____________________________________________________

       (Please Include Full Middle Name)

 

Date Of Birth & Age On Wedding Date: ___________________________________

 

     Address: ______________________________________________________________

   

     Phone Number(s): ______________________________________________________

    

     E-mail Address: ________________________________________________________

    

     Father Of The Groom: __________________________________________________

    

     Mother Of The Groom:__________________________________________________

    

     Parent’s Phone Number:_________________________________________________ 

 

2.  Brides Full Name:______________________________________________________

       (Please Include Full Middle Name)

 

Date Of Birth & Age On Wedding Date: ___________________________________

 

     Address: ______________________________________________________________

    

     Phone Number(s): ______________________________________________________

   

     E-mail Address: ________________________________________________________

   

     Father Of The Bride: ___________________________________________________

   

     Mother Of The Bride:___________________________________________________

  

     Parent’s Phone Number: ________________________________________________ 

 

3. Day, Date And Time Of Wedding:_________________________________________

    Also, if you know the specific day such as Sun, Mon., Tue., Wed., etc., please enter it.

4.  Approximate Number Of Wedding Attendees? _____________________________

 

5. Place Where Wedding Will Be Performed: __________________________________

 

________________________________________________________________________

  

     Address Of Wedding: ___________________________________________________    

 

_________________________________________________________________________

     

     Wedding Place Phone Number(s):  ________________________________________

   

6. Are There Any Gated Property Codes, Specific Directions Or Routes, Wedding Signs, Etc., That I Must Know Of? _________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

7. Is The Wedding Ceremony Going To Be Conducted Indoors Or Outdoors?    

         (Please Circle One)

 

8. Do You Have A Contention Plan For Any Inconceivable Weather? 

    Yes: ______ No: ______

 

9. Do you know of Anything That Could Detract From The Ceremony? Traffic, Waterfalls, Trains, Airplanes, Construction, Road Repair, Volcano’s, Any Loud Noises, Etc.? _________________________________________________________________________

_________________________________________________________________________

10. Is There Going To Be A Rehearsal?   Yes: ________   No: _________

     

      Date And Time Of rehearsal? ___________________________________________   

    

      Location Of Rehearsal? (If Different Then Wedding Location) ________________

     

_________________________________________________________________________    

 

     Address: ______________________________________________________________

     

     Phone Number(s):______________________________________________________

 

11. Is The Reverend To Attend The Rehearsal? Yes: ___________ No: ____________

     Please Note: There will be an extra charge of $50.00 for Sacramento Rehearsals due to Reserving the date and time). Other Counties are $75.00 per county from

Sacramento.

 

12. Do Either Of You Have A Wedding Web Site That You’re Using?

    

          Yes: _____   No: _____

                  If you do, what is the URL (Web Address)? 

            ________________________________________________________________________

 

13.  Will You Be Having A DJ Or A Live Band At Your Wedding Ceremony?

    

      Yes: ______ No: _____

 

14.  Will The DJ Be Providing Me, You Or Us, With A Mic For The Wedding Ceremony?

 

      No DJ: _________ Officiant: _________   Groom: _________   Bride: __________

 

15.  Should The Officiant Bring His Own 280 Amp With 2 Lapel Mics With Him For

      An Additional $35.00?  Yes: __________   No: ___________

 

16. Do you have an independent full service Wedding Planner or a Day of Coordinator? Yes: __________ No: ____________

 

     If yes, please include their name and contact information below.

 

Contact Name: _________________________________________________________.

Contact Phone Number: _________________________________________________.

Contact E-Mail Address (If Known): _______________________________________.

     (Note: Most planners and Day Of Coordinators over-see your rehearsal, and many “venue provided” coordinators do so as well).

 

17. Does your venue include a coordinator with their services? Yes: _____ No: _____

   

If any of those options are available to you, you might want to forgo contracting me for your rehearsal, saving you $$$). 

 

       

18.  Has The Marriage License Been Obtained And Available For Reviewing?

         Yes: ________ No: _________

   

     If No, When Are You Planning To Apply For The License? ___________________

 

19.  Does Your Father, Mother, Both Parents/Brothers/Sisters/Uncles/ Son/Daughter

       Etc., Want To "Give The Bride Away"?   Yes: _________   No: __________

  

       If Yes, Please Provide Their Name And Their Relationship To You.  

 

                              Full Name                                                                    Relationship

___________________________________________________   ____________________   

 

___________________________________________________   ____________________ 

 

___________________________________________________   ____________________   

 

20.  What Is The Appropriate Attire For The Reverend?  

  

     Dark Colored Suit & Tie: ____________________________

          (This Is The Normal Attire)

   

      Cotton Tweed White Suit Coat, Pants And Tie (Shell White): _________________   

 

      Cowboy Attire: ______________ Attire #1: ____________ Attire #2: ___________

    

     Vestments (Alb & Vestments/Stole): __________________ (For Christian   

             Weddings)

    

     Black Shirt With White Collar, Black Pants: _______________ (Priest Uniform)

 

     Dressed Up As Your Wedding Theme As Discussed Below? 

 

      Yes: _________ No: __________

          

      No Preference: ________________________

 

21.  Do You Have A Theme Or Specific Colors For Your Wedding?    

 

       Yes: _________________    No: _________________

            What is it? ___________________________________

       (Or Please Circle Below)


1920's

1950's

1960's and Disco

Alice Cooper

Alice In Wonderland

Angel 

Asian  

Autumn/Fall 

Beach

Beach Party

Black And White

Bluez Brotherz

Bond

Butterfly  

Calla Lily

Camelot

Celtic

Cherry Blossom

Christmas 

Colors: __________________________

_________________________________

_________________________________

_________________________________

Cruise Ship 

Daisy 

Disney

Dolphin  

Dreamsicles

Egyptian

Elvis Blue Hawaii

Elvis

Fairy Tale 

Fall  

Feather/Maribou

Fleur De Lis  

Flower Girl Items

Gangster

Golf 

Gothic

Gothic Rock

Graveyard

Halloween

Harley

Hawaiian

Heart

Irish 

Hollywood Starlet

Intergalactic

Italian 

Kim Anderson

Las Vegas  

Lavender Floral

Liberace

Lily of the Valley

Linked at the Heart

Love Bird

Mardi Gras  

Marry My Friend

Medieval

Monogram 

Moroccan

Motorcycle

November  

Outdoor  

Perfect Pair s

Pirate

Phantom

Pink Caddy

Pirate

Red Rose

Rock And Roll 

Red 

Rock-a-Billy

Rocky's Horror

Rose

Royalty  

Rustic/Barn

Seashell  

Shower  

Spring 

Star Wars

Star 

Summer  

Swan And Heart  

Sweethearts

Tiffany 

The Tomb

The Viva Tango

Tulips

Valentine's 

Victorian 

Viva du Cirque

Wass-up Pussycat

Western

Western/Cowboy

When Vampire's Fly

Wine

Wings of Love

Winter 

Winter Wonder Land

Woodstock


Please Describe If Not Listed Above: ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

22.  Do you want to perform Any Unity Ceremonies?    

 

       Yes: ___________ No: ___________

         

       Please circle which one(s) or add it here: __________________________________

     13 Coins

       Balloon Releases

       Bell Ringing Ceremony

       Blessing of Children

       Blessing Of The Hands

       Blessing With Holy Oils

       Blessing With Holy Water

       Blessing Of The Engagement and or Bridal Rings

       Box Ceremony

       Breaking the Glass Ceremony

       Broom Jumping

       Butterfly Release

       Unity Candle Ceremony      

       Celtic Loving Cup Ceremony

       Child Acknowledgement             

       Children’s Ceremony           

        Chocolate

        Circling

        Clay Ceremony

        Cleansing Of The Hands

        Communion

         Double Sided Cup

         Dove Release

         Goldfish

         Hand Ceremony

         Hand-Fasting

         Padlock Ceremony

         Roses To The Mothers

         Salt       

         Sand

         Water


         Wine/Wine Box Ceremony    

23.  Is Their A Specific Tone To The Ceremony That You’re Wanting?  (Please Circle) I.e.; Traditional, Spiritual, Formal, Religious, Casual, Interfaith, Shotgun Wedding, Beach Wedding, Fun, Exciting, etc.

24.  Do You Want A Passage From “Ruth” Read? Yes: _________ No: ___________

25.  Do You Want An Opening Prayer (First Reading)? Yes: _______ No: _________

      (Our Father, We Come Before You This Holy Occasion With Our Hearts Filled…

26.  Do You Want A Liturgy Of The Word Read? (Old Testament Scriptures)

       Yes: _________ No: ___________

Usually Taken From Genesis 2:21-25) And The Lord Caused A Deep Sleep To Fall  Upon Adam…)

27.  Do You Want A Second Reading? (New Testament Scriptures [Normally Taken From St. Paul] Corinthians 13:1-8a.           Yes: _________ No: ___________

28.  Do You Also Want A Gospel Reading?       Yes: _________ No: ___________

       (Normally taken from Mark, Luke, John or Matthew)

 29.  Do You Want To Receive Communion?     Yes: _________ No: ___________

 30.  Will You Be Reading Your Own Vows, Or Will The Standard Vows Be Stated?

            Standard: _______________   Personal Vows: _______________

       (Personal Vows are very highly recommended).

 31.  Do You Have A Wedding Program Available? Yes: _________   No: __________

            If you do, please provide the Reverend Whitters with one.

 32.  Who Will Provide The Bridal Ring set? ___________________________________

                                                                                                                                 Age

 33.  Will There Be A Flower Girl? (Full Name): ________________________  ______

       (I Will Need Their Age, Middle Initial and Gender also).                                                                                                                                                         ________________________  ______

                                                                               ________________________  ______                               

                                                                                                                                     Age  

34.  Will There Be A /Ring Bearer? (Full Name): ________________________  ______

       (I Will Need Their Age, Middle Initial and Gender also).                                                                                                                                                            ________________________  ______

                                                                                  ________________________  ______    

Other than the Flower Girl and Ring Bearers, will there be any other young specialty people that you would recommend that Reverend Whitters present a Certificate to that helped with your wedding? (Bible Readers, Train Bearers, Coin Bearers, etc.)  Please list their First Name, Middle Initial, Last Name, Gender and What Position They Will Be Holding.                                                                                               

_________________________________________________________________________

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36.  Who Will Be The Best Man? (Full Name And Please Include Middle Initial).

_________________________________________________________________________

 37.  Who Will Be The Maid Of Honor? (Full Name And Please Include Middle Initial).

_________________________________________________________________________

 38.  Please Provide The Names Who Shall Be The 2 Witnesses For Signing The Marriage License? 

(Must Be Age 18 Or Higher). 

If They Are The Best Man And Maid Of Honor, Please So State.

      Also, Please Include Any Middle Initial.

     1. __________________________________________________________________


     2. __________________________________________________________________

 39.  Will The Reverend Give A “Blessing Of The Food” At The Reception?

       Yes: __________ No: ___________


40.  Will There Be A Mentioning Or Prayer For Any Deceased Member Of The Family Prior To The Wedding? (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Aunt, Etc.) 

       If Yes, Please Provide Their Name And Relationship To You.

 

      Also, If There Are Other Members Who Could Not Make It Here Today Due To Sickness, Location, Etc., I’ll Also Include Them Into The “In Memory Of” portion. 

 Please Remember “This Is NOT An Obituary Or A Eulogy, IT’S YOUR WEDDING!

Please Print Exact Name To Be Read:          Please Circle                  Relationship

 

_________________________________    Bride/Groom   _________________________

 

_________________________________    Bride/Groom   _________________________

 

_________________________________    Bride/Groom   _________________________

 

_________________________________    Bride/Groom   _________________________

 

_________________________________    Bride/Groom   _________________________

 41.  Do Either Of You Have Children? 

       a. Groom:  Yes: __________  No: ____________

      Please Print Names:                                              Age             Gender

______________________________________    _______      _________

______________________________________    _______      _________


______________________________________    _______      _________


______________________________________    _______      _________


______________________________________    _______      _________

     b. Bride:  Yes: __________  No: ____________


                    Please Print Names:                                 Age             Gender

______________________________________    _______      _________

_____________________________________    _______      _________

______________________________________    _______      _________


______________________________________    _______      _________


______________________________________    _______      _________

 

42.  Will There Be Any Children Who Would Like To Be Part Of, Or Mentioned In

       The Ceremony? (Being Blessed; In Sand or Medallion Ceremony; Etc.). If There

       Are, Please List Their Information Below.    Yes: __________  No: ____________

       If Yes, Please Give The Full Names Of Each Child With Their Age And

       Relationship (Or Role (Sand Ceremony, Rock Ceremony, Blessing Of Holy

       Water Or Oils, Etc.).

Please Print Exact Name To Be Read:                 Age                         Relationship/Role

 __________________________________    _______      _________________________


___________________________________    _______      _________________________


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___________________________________    _______      _________________________

 __________________________________    _______      _________________________

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(Any Concerns Or Questions?)

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Whitters 1080 Form (Rev 6/05)